May 2013
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Bust Magazine Talks IUDs!
You know we love us some birth control stories. Looks like BUST Magazine does too! They posted reviews of Mirena and ParaGard IUDs in a two part “IUD, You UD” mini-series. WE UD, BUST, WE UD!
(And that’s why we have so. Many. Articles. About. IUDs. In case you’re interested.)
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Boldly Going Online for Love →
We’ve come across some interesting dating sites in our day, and the premiere of Star Trek into Darkness inspired us to boldly go where we haven’t been before to investigate Star-Trek-themed dating sites to add to the list.
In case you’re interested, we’ve found StarTrekDating.com, which encourages users to “set phasers to stunning,” and TrekPassions.com, which...
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Is it ever OK to date someone who is off-limits? →
How do you decide who’s off-limits? With so many unique people, relationships, and circumstances, it’s not always easy to know who to avoid and who to date.
Join the Frisky Friday conversation: Who do you consider 100% no-exceptions off-limits? We want to hear from you!
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The girls' guide to getting some privacy on your... →
As my otherwise awesome parents are pretty conservative about, well, everything, I don’t want them to know what type of birth control I’m using or when I get tested for STIs and HIV (twice a year, if you’re interested). When I was in college I paid for these things out-of-pocket or put them off until free services were offered at my university because I didn’t want my parents getting a play by...
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Dear Diet Industry: I’m Breaking up with You. →
I gave you everything, and in return you gave me sugar-free pudding.
There’s a big difference between eating good food to stay healthy and feel fantastic (hell yes!) and dieting because you feel bad about your body (just… no).
We say: If there are ways you’d like to change your diet to feel even more fabulous, we support you 100%. But before you change anything,...
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Long distance relationships just got a whole lot...
Is this the best combination of sex and technology yet? Durex is working on a line of undergarments (Fundawear—badum-ching!) that vibrate when activated by mobile phone. That’s right, remote-operated vibrating underwear are in development.
They’re not available for purchase yet, but it looks like the Aussies will be the first to give this product a go. (Gives new meaning to...
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Crunches for better orgasms? →
Exercise isn’t just good for your health—it’s also great for your sex life. Getting in shape can lead to longer time spent between the sheets and better orgasms. Best gym advertisement ever.
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Got a health condition? Know your birth control... →
Our newest Provider Perspective recommends birth control methods for folks with several common (or common-ish) medical conditions: heavy or irregular periods, obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, and breast cancer.
Dealing with one of these conditions? Tell us what’s worked for you—or let us know what other conditions we should cover—in the comments!
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“Don’t beat around the bush. Studies suggest that many patients wait until their...”
– Talking to doctors can be super intimidating—but it doesn’t have to be. Take time out of your National Women’s Health Week to check out these communication strategies to get what you need out of a doctor’s visit.
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Free birth control? It might not be a fantasy. →
You could qualify for FREE birth control (what better way to celebrate National Women’s Health Week?). Find out here and spread the word to your lady friends.
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National Women's Health Week is here.
It’s finally National Women’s Health Week! From May 12th to the 18th, women around the country will take steps to improve their health by getting active, quitting smoking, and scheduling regular checkups.
Good health includes good birth control, so it’s the perfect time to find the type that works best for you. Overwhelmed? Don’t worry—we’ve got you...
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Travelers and Homebodies: Can it Work?
These days, if I’m not on a trip I’m probably planning one. Whether its for work, a family obligation, or to explore a country on my “must-see-before-I-die” list, traveling is constantly on my brain. So of course I’m considering what this means for my love life! And after talking to a few members of the Nomadness Travel Tribe (a traveling group I belong to), I got the memo that “nomads,” a.k.a....
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“Having that social construct thrown out like it’s fact that women...”
– If you’re a woman with a stronger sex drive than your male partner, this Huffington Post article has an important message for you: you are not alone.
Whether or not you can directly relate, the stories are definitely worth a read. And if the subject hits home for you, check out our Frisky...
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Is a Triple Crown for Sex Toys 'Coming' Soon? →
If you liked that pun, you’ll love the Huffington Post article (and accompanying live-action video) about the new fad of racing vibrators. Apparently all the kids are doing it.
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“Eat dessert first. Go out in a new neighborhood. Have sex in the kitchen. The...”
– Just one of the 16 ways we suggested for setting the mood in today’s Frisky Friday. What’s your favorite mood-setting strategy?
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5 Apps to Spice Up Your (Real or Imaginary) Sex...
We’ve shared our favorite smartphone tools to help you have a great time between the sheets while preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Next on the agenda, 5 apps to spice up your (real or imaginary) sex life.
1. BootyLog
This app totally rocks—though we might be a little biased. You can create an anonymous user profile and upload your sauciest and silliest...
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Find your farmer. Or your fellow book lover. Or... →
Match.com and OKCupid aren’t the only dating sites in town—we found some interesting alternatives for a Frisky Friday a few months ago. Have you tried any of them?
April 2013
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“If your desire for sexual activity is overriding your commitment to personal...”
– It might be hard for some of us to imagine, but apparently there’s such a thing as too much sex drive. In yesterday’s Frisky Friday, we looked at the dark side of sexual desire—sexual addiction.
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Attention, Underwear Lovers: Our sweepstakes ends... →
Our membership program is here to stay, but our sweepstakes to give 1,000 3-month subscriptions to folks who create a Bedsider account (or sign into the one they already have) is ending today. So, if you want a chance at 3 pairs of cutie-cute undies, sent to you, free of charge, there really is no time like the present.
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Sex on TV: The In-Depth Analysis of TLC Gypsy...
Some particularly flamboyant bridesmaid dresses.
So I fully admit that I watch (and love) TLC’s Gypsy Sisters. And not in the “Oh—if it’s on, I’ve watched it” way. No. I actively seek it out. And then I go on the internet to find out more. It’s tragic that the short first season is already over, but in the meantime I have season two of My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding to look forward to....
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Purchase Wink Wink for $1.99 and help Bedsider... →
For real, though, it’s a game we made, it’s fun to play, and it supports Bedsider.
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Celebrate Earth Day by Greening Your Sex Life →
Yes, you can make your sex life greener (hint: birth control helps). What better way to celebrate Earth Day?
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In search of: Better everything (including sex) →
We know you’re amazing just as you are, but in case there’s anything in your life that could use a little improvement, yesterday’s Frisky Friday had some pretty awesome resources to get you started.
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College Week, Day 5: Adieu, Adios, Auf...
We’re wrapping up College Week with a reflection piece by Bedsider UMD ambassador Connor Davies. Interested in becoming part of the next generation of campus ambassadors? Email us at college@bedsider.org and introduce yourself!
Fearless ambassador Connor Davies.
Working with Bedsider has been an experience I wouldn’t trade for anything—but that’s not to say that it has been a...
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College Week, Day 4: Spotlight on University of...
It’s College Week on Bedsider’s social channels, a chance to highlight the efforts of our amazing campus ambassadors. Today’s “College Week spotlight” is on the super-saucy and creative team at the University of South Carolina. This interview was conducted by their friends at BedsiderATX, with answers provided by Bedsider ambassador Cayla Spear.
A fierce model...
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“I am so excited to get back on birth control again. I think I’m going to try the...”
– From a happy lady at University of South Carolina after an encounter with a Bedsider ambassador. Also a great reminder that if at first you don’t succeed (at finding a method you like), try, try again!
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Comprehensive Safer Sex 3: Take it to the next...
As part of STD Awareness Month, Jenelle Marie of The STD Project is contributing a three-part series to our tumblr (along with an article for Bedsider.org) sharing her experiences with STIs and her suggestions for how to have the safest sex possible. This is the final post of the series.
Always bring a raincoat even if you’re not expecting rain. Image source: George Eastman House
When...
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College Week, Day 4: Condoms GALORE!!
Today’s College Week spotlight is on our Bedsider ambassadors at University of South Carolina (BedsiderSC), who took the message of safer sex to the runway. Here’s the story behind the titillating dress they created.
Model and crew backstage before the epic show.
This semester, BedsiderSC has become very popular with the help of our ambassadors and volunteers, who have held...
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College Week, Day 3: BedsiderATX On Feminism and...
As part of College Week, we asked our ambassadors what their most memorable events were this past year. Here’s what the Longhorns at BedsiderATX remembered best.
Everything really is bigger in Texas, including Bedsider tabling events.
Women are an important part of Bedsider, which meant participating in the Texas Orange Jackets’ Week of Women was both fun and meaningful for the...
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