Hope your weekend is off to a beautiful start, whatever you’re up to.
(via naisenberg)
Don’t sacrifice your access to pleasure in the patently false belief that sexual satisfaction will find you when you are fitter or more beautiful. In actuality, studies have shown the reverse to be true: opening yourself up to more sexual pleasure will make you recognize the beauty in your body as it is and inspire you to treat it better.
Fetish Friday: Temperature Play
What melts your butter?
If you fool around with Temperature Play, you’re going to find out. Why? Because this is a type of sensual play where heat and cold are used to intensify physical sensations.
Some like it hot. For them, drizzle warmed chocolate, wax, honey, caramel, or oil all over your body (or theirs) to get in the mood.
Others like to chill. For them, grab some ice, whipped cream, or frozen fruit and use it to elicit major goosebumps.
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Masturbate! It’s one of the best ways to learn about your body, to improve both the pleasure you give yourself and the pleasure you can achieve with partners…and just a good ol’ time in general!
We ❤ Woody Allen. And as for how we feel about masturbation… there’s a Method Monday about it.
Fetish Friday: Chrysophilia
Love gold? Wish you could dip something (or someone) in gold and use it for pleasure? If gold or golden objects get you all hot and bothered, you’re into chrysophilia.
Formicophilia is sex play with ants. Or, more specifically, it’s enjoying the sexual sensation of ants or bugs crawling or nibbling on your genitals. So, formicophiliacs won’t be the ones moving the picnic blanket to get away from the bugs. They’ll be the ones who are totally fine with ants in their pants.
When I have sex, I don’t just get off on my own kinks and my own pleasure. I also get off on my partner’s pleasure. The sight, the sound, the feel, of someone in my bed who’s getting excited and getting off… that’s hot. It’s not particularly selfless or noble of me — it’s just hot. The more I care about someone, the more true that is… And if you can’t get off on the sight and sound and feel of your partner’s pleasure — even if what you’re doing isn’t your particular favorite thing — then what the hell are you doing in a sexual / romantic relationship?
Well said.
The Sexpert: "My Pleasure Sex & Disability Guide"
Welcome to the MyPleasure Sex & Disability Guide, your complete resource for education, information and sexual enhancement products and sex toys for people who have various disabilities or health-related conditions that might otherwise limit…
The new edition of Our Bodies, Ourselves has some good resources (their website has lots of links too, if you don’t have or want to buy the book) on sex with a disability or chronic illness, including a super-helpful chart on pages 194-195 which discusses the effects of different disabilities and chronic illnesses on sexuality, as well as considerations relating to birth control, pregnancy, and childbirth.
