Hold off on the paddles and whips. Seriously. A warmed hand is all you need for now. Try to keep the hand cupped with fingers together. A flat palm will give a little bit more of a sting.
From this week’s Frisky Friday, Hold me, scold me: How to play around with spanking
Don’t knock it till you try it—and, whether or not you’re feeling experimental, have a lovely weekend;)